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The ultimate experience - Tantra massage in combination with NLP, hypnosis and intuitive massage.

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What is Tantra?

Osho on Tantra: Tantra is basically spiritual sexology... because man's mind is perverted throughout the world by religions teaching repression of sex. Tantra is the only science which teaches you expression of sex -- not as indulgence, but as a spiritual discipline. This is a transformation of a biological phenomenon into spirituality. Osho

Tantra says yes unconditionally. There has never been any other vision of life which says yes without any conditions -- simply yes. No disappears; from your very being no disappears. When there is no no, how can you fight? How can you be at war? You simply float. You simply merge and melt. You become one. The boundaries are there no more. No creates the boundary. No is the boundary around you. Whenever you say no, watch -- immediately something closes in. Whenever you say yes, your being opens...

Tantra says: "You say yes. You say yes to everything. You need not fight, you need not even swim -- you simply float with the current. The river is going by itself, on its own accord, everything reaches to the ultimate ocean. You simply don't create any disturbance, you don't push the river, you simply go with it." That going with it, floating with it, relaxing with it, is Tantra. (Tantra: The Supreme Understanding by Osho.)

What is Tantra massage?

Usually when you get a massage, whether it be a foot massage, back massage or full body massage there is a boundary between the giver and receiver of what parts of the body can be seen or touched. In addition the receiver will generally inhibit any strong sexual responses that they may experience. This is more likely with a male receiver as an erection is an obvious sign of sexual arousal whereas a woman can become quite sexually aroused with minimal physiological signs.

When the massage is between two lovers, the trust allows both giver and receiver to behave in a more relaxed, open, responsive and natural manner, without the suppression that one may experience in a 'formal' massage setting with a stranger. Between two lovers, even a foot massage can become an erotic experience.

In the context of a massage at what point does it become a sexual experience? There is no clear division between pleasurable feelings and sexual feelings. In Tantra we create a situation in which trust and sensitivity can allow the natural flow and expression of life energy within agreed upon boundaries

Tantra massage is more about the evolution of consciousness than about sex. Tantra says, don't suppress your feelings. Tantra says allow your sexual feelings to be there; don't suppress them; allow them, and then allow the sexual energy to flow in a new direction, and in the process clear any emotional or psychological blocks that you may have to being a more integrated and spiritually evolved human being. With Tantra massage both giver and receiver have to allow themselves to be vulnerable to the experience. At times the giver may feel sexually aroused but he/she just allows the energy to be there and watches it as a meditative experience. The focus is always on assisting the receiver to relax and allowing their energy to flow in new healthful ways.

Is Tantra massage just another name for sexual massage?

Tantra massage is not about physical sex. Physical sex is goal oriented towards physical orgasm. Tantra massage does not have to involve sex or orgasm, though it does involve a utilisation and transformation of your sexual energy into something more spiritual. Tantra involves an awakening of the kundalini energy.

In fact, Tantra massage does not have to involve massaging of the sexual organs. Tantra massage does not even have to involve removing your clothes. Your first Tantra massage can be done fully clothed if you wish, and as you develop trust the clothes can be removed in stages. The aim of sexual massage is pleasure and orgasm. The aim of Tantra massage is to help you relax into your sensuality and sexuality, to increase self acceptance and self esteem, to help you become more grounded in your body, to allow sexual energy to move in a life affirmative natural manner unrestrained by negative beliefs from society and religion, to allow your sexual energy to move upwards through the chakras rather than down and out through the sex organs. Tantra massage helps the sex energy move upwards through the body and transform consciousness. Tantra massage is an experience of meditation.

In fact many meditation techniques work by stimulating sexual energy and coercing it to move upwards through the chakras. The sexual component of meditation is often not acknowledged by those who teach or practise meditation but the sexual energy can not be avoided. For example if one sits in meditation long enough then eventually the perineum will begin to warm and sexual feelings will be felt. If you know how to work with the sexual energy then it is possible to experience full body orgasms during meditation without getting an erection or ejaculating.

Chakra meditations involve bringing your awareness to each of the chakras in turn, starting with the first chakra, that is the sex chakra, and moving up to the crown chakra. Not everyone agrees on the same locations for the chakras but the first chakra is generally accepted as the sex chakra and is located at the perineum. Some chakra meditations locate another chakra at the sex organs. Why? Is the reason to stimulate sexual energy? Because that is what happens during an intense chakra meditation. In one style of chakra meditation the meditator focuses on each of the chakra's in turn with deep breathing and body movements, which serve to stimulate the sex energy and move it upwards. In another style one focuses on each chakra in turn and visualises the chakra filling with a golden liquid. This may be combined with a mantra that is intended to stimulate specific chakra's.

After twenty years of meditation practise the realisation finally dawned upon me that meditation is primarily designed to stimulate the sex energy and move it upwards. (Kundalini energy.) Out of this understanding I created a powerful chakra meditation that you can experience when you come for a Tantra massage. Drawing upon universal energy it directly stimulates both sex and kundalini energy. The experience is profoundly beautiful and just one small component of the Abby Eagle style of Tantra massage.

Isn't Tantra just an excuse for playing with sexual feelings?

You can't get away from sexual energy. Life energy is sex energy. You were born out of sex and the union of an egg and a sperm which combined their DNA in sexual division. I like to think of the egg and sperm having a tremendous orgasm when they come together. In addition the programming of the DNA drives the human organism to reproduce itself. You could say that every thought and action is driven in some way by sexual energy.

When you get back to the basic assumption that life energy is sex energy then all that occurs in life is that we channel our sex energy into different types of thinking and behaviours. In addition the human organism is designed for sex energy / kundalini energy to move upwards through the seven subtle bodies towards the crown chakra.

Since sex energy is our life energy then when we suppress it, then it must find a new path through the body and mind. One only needs to look towards those people who are members of sexually repressive religions to see the effect is has upon them. I heard Osho state that when sexual energy is suppressed then it becomes anger; when anger is repressed then it becomes greed and when greed is suppressed then it becomes a pious spiritual ego. Osho also felt that 80% of illness originates from tension in the second subtle body (also known as the unconscious mind). The importance of moving sexual energy has also been recognised in the West. Wilhelm Reich a psychoanalyst in the 1930's wrote a book called the The Cancer Biopathy in which he states that sexual repression is the prime cause of illness.

What happens in an Abby Eagle Tantra massage session?

There are no international standards on what constitutes a Tantra massage. My background is in NLP, hypnosis and meditation and I have been an Osho Sannyasin since 1984. During a Tantra massage I combine NLP, hypnosis and meditation with impulse creativity massage.

What is Impulse Creativity Massage?

I got into NLP, hypnosis and meditation back in the mid 1980's. During that period I learned a style of massage from Jesse Greene, an American Osho Sannyasin who is also a psychologist. The name given to the style of massage was Impulse Creativity Massage. During this period of training I also learned how to develop and use my psychic ability to tune into another person's mind and body. The term impulse is used because the practitioner has to drop the conditioned use of their hands and their formal massage training and learn to give the client's body what it needs in the moment. The term creativity is used because it involves tapping into one's own creativity, and learning how to trust and follow one's own body movements in a way that gives the client what he/she needs in the moment. In a way, one just lets the client's body and energy drive the actions of the practitioner. The practitioners voice is also used to facilitate the process, not just with words but also with abstract sounds that communicate directly with the body. Impulse Creativity Massage is about designing new massage techniques on the spot that fit perfectly for the client.

How is NLP and hypnosis used?

When you come for a Tantra massage I will ask you about any presenting problems that you have and what you would like as your desired outcomes. If you want physical or emotional healing then we can address that too. Then I help you to access a powerful resource state such as ecstasy, bliss, peace, love, joy, being in the light, oneness with God, universal love and healing energy, and so on. Using NLP and hypnosis I will amplify the feeling then spread this feeling throughout your body. It would be an understatement to say that the experience is intensely pleasurable. I use my hypnosis skills to communicate directly with your body and unconscious mind, to help you release tension, bypass blocks, let go conditioning, facilitate physical healing, etc.

Where does meditation fit in?

Tantra itself is a meditation. The focus of Tantra massage is on utilising the sexual energy for mind and body healing, and for reaching deeper states of meditation. Tantra reverses the flow of sex energy and stimulates the movement of kundalini. As part of your Tantra massage you will experience a beautiful chakra meditation, like none that you have ever experienced before - and I do most of the work for you. The chakra meditation just by itself can be intensely pleasurable. Sometimes orgasm may occur but the intention is on reaching a deep state of meditation rather than physical sexual pleasure.

How do you use Tantra massage to facilitate body healing?

I help you to access a powerful resource state, combine it with your sex energy, activate your chakras, encourage your life energy to become stronger and more present, and then help you to flow the resource state into those parts of the body that require healing, and to flow the resource state into those areas of your life where you need it most.

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