You have landed on this page because you want to stop smoking...
Stop smoking fast with NLP and Hypnotherapy.
No willpower required - no withdrawal symptoms - no symptom substitution - no weight gain - no feelings of deprivation - no internal conflict - no anxiety - the smoking is replaced with feelings of confidence, love and happiness.
Stopping smoking may be easier than you think -- you just have to know how!
1. Start now
by making a record of your smoking triggers.
The first thing that you will need to do is to keep a record of
your smoking triggers. That is, each time you feel like a cigarette
make a note on a piece of paper of what you were doing, feeling and
thinking. Tie the notes to the cigarette packet with an elastic band.
Remember to bring this list with you when come for your sessions as
it will provide some valuable information. At your stop smoking sessions
we will clear the trigger emotions that were identified on your list.
2. Change your
identity and set goals.
If smoking has become a part of your identity and lifestyle then we
will need to address that so that you no longer identify with the smoking
crowd. This means that you will need to start thinking of 'who the new
you is going to be'? You need to forget all about smoking altogether.
Don't even think in terms of being an ex-smoker. In the future this 'new
you' will look back on the past and remember that you smoked but you will
have no attachment to it one way or the other. One way to begin this process
is to create some goals for yourself and then create a vision board of
your new lifestyle. (A vision board is a board on which you stick pictures
of your goals.) When you come for an NLP session I'll help you to install
your goals on your timeline in your mind.
3. Integrate the
internal conflict between the smoking part and the healthy part.
One of the most important things to understand in terms of changing
a habit such as smoking is that you want to stop smoking, yet you can't.
Which implies that there is a part of you that controls the smoking. (Forget
chemical addiction theory - it plays a much smaller role than the medical
establishment would have you believe.)
Most smokers have
a 'part' (see
the article on two minds) which wants them to smoke but also a 'part'
which wants them to stop. The part which wants to stop smoking represents
an aspect of the conscious mind and is usually an intellectual, serious,
pragmatic, educated, knowledgeable, controlling part. This part has a
conscious understanding of 'why' you smoke but is 'powerless' to stop
the behaviour. With will power this part can stop smoking for a period
of time but it involves using the mind and there is tension involved with
being a nonsmoker, because as soon as you relax you find yourself smoking
again. Am I right or am I wrong? The other part - the smoking part represents
an aspect of the unconscious mind.
This part is much
like a 'two year old' child. It is a kinesthetic and feeling part. It
represents the heart of the person and whereas the other part has the
'job' of taking care of the pragmatic needs the smoking part has the job
of meeting the emotional needs of you. The smoking part - being much like
a two year old - often gets pushed around by the the older mature part
which wants to stop smoking. But like all two year olds it is able to
exert emotional influence and often wins out in the end. So one of the
major tasks in helping a smoker to stop smoking is to help them acknowledge
both their parts and to integrate them into one super part which has the
best attributes of each. -- Hence we resolve the internal conflict. However
until the two parts are fully integrated the non smoker is likely to back
slide as soon as they feel stressed.
4. Break the smoking habit.
Another important aspect of stopping smoking is to deal with the habitual
response. (This is what most smokers have fought with for a long time
but because they don't understand how the mind works they buy the chemical
addiction theory.)
So what is a habit?
A habit can be thought of as a series of steps that occur our of conscious
awareness. So what we do is to identify the components of the habitual
'thinking process'. The smoker is usually not aware of the images or thinking
that occurs prior to needing a smoke - but an experienced NLP Master Practitioner can identify these elements and help you to replace them with positive
thinking that occurs naturally and does not require will power or conscious
effort.
5. Free up your
energy and enjoy being a non smoker.
Most smokers use smoking to suppress feelings and energy. Let's take
a hypothetical man called John. As a child, John may have learned that
it was not safe to express himself.
For example when John
got excited he may have been reprimanded by an adult - so then John learned
to associate expressing himself with pain - and thereafter when he found
himself feeling like being expressive there was also the expectation of
the pain of a reprimand.
It just so happens
that the chemicals in cigarettes work in such a way as to hold down the
energy in the body. So when John had an opportunity to smoke he would
have noticed that it helped 'keep him out of trouble'. So for John cigarettes
have a positive effect upon his life and until he makes the necessary
personal change it will be very difficult for him to stop smoking.
6. Make yourself
feel good, today and everyday without a cigarette.
Most smokers at one time associated good feelings to having a cigarette.
For example the first cigarette given by an adult to a teenager may have
signified the end of childhood and the entry into adulthood. For other
teenagers they may have associated feelings of being accepted by a group
of peers. Each time thereafter when they have a cigarette it reminds them
of the feeling. In NLP terminology we call that an anchored response.
(Pavlovian conditioning.) Part of the stop smoking process is to help
the client access other resource states that work even better than the
cigarette.
7. Learn to meditate
and feel the benefits today.
Most smokers, whether they are aware of it or not suffer from stress
and anxiety. Scientific research has shown that meditation can help with
the: stop smoking, weight loss, eating disorders, addictions, blood pressure,
heart disease, anxiety, stress, negative emotions, scholastic performance
and sports performance.
An important
part of the stop smoking procedure is to
learn how to relax both mind and body and you can learn state of the art skills to do that at the stress management class.
Many people have tried to meditate but can not seem to shut off
the mind. Never mind that because in this stress management class you to learn how to meditate at a much faster rate than
with traditional methods. Within a couple of classes you will
learn how to make significant progress in quieting the mind.
If you have read this far then you must be keen to stop smoking.
Read
what Jill has to say about using NLP and hypnotherapy to quit smoking.
How I quit
smoking with NLP and Hypnosis.
"It's
been over three months since I attended the 'NLP For Personal Growth
Workshop' with Abby Eagle. Before that time I used to be a social
drinker and smoker, and it was not unusual for me to have a heavy night
drinking and smoking.
Since
the workshop I have hardly touched a drop of alcohol and I've had no urge
to smoke. I've also lost 5 kg in weight and 3 weeks ago I joined a gym.
The
only reason for these changes has been my attendance at the NLP workshop
with Abby Eagle." Jill Stonnel, MacGregor, Gold Coast Qld
Comments
by a Master NLP Practitioner
NLP,
Time Line and Hypnosis get excellent results in helping people
to lose weight and stop smoking. The reason being is that these modalities
help you to deal with the root cause of the problem at the level of the
unconscious mind. Many therapies designed to help people lose weight and
stop smoking only help you to change a behaviour. If all you had to was
change a behaviour then with a little discipline it would be easy to lose
weight or stop smoking but the problem lies much deeper at the level of
the unconscious mind. With NLP,
Time Line and Hypnosis a skillful
NLP practitioner can help you clear the root causes much faster than most
other modalities.
A few of the many issues
that can successfully be addressed with NLP and Hypnotherapy:
Weight loss.
Eating disorders.
Stop smoking.
Fear
of public speaking.
Anxiety and panic attacks.
Self
confidence.
Stress
management.
Anger management.
Marijuana, drug and alcohol abuse.
Stress related health problems.
Relationship
problems.
Trauma resolution.
To get more information about NLP and Hypnotherapy on the Gold Coast of Australia please phone 07 5576 4270 or click on the button to send an email.

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