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You have landed on this page because you want to find your life direction and achieve sucess in life, relationships and career... My Life Direction ManualNLP life direction manual - discover your life's purpose - get clear on your personality type - Roger Hamilton's wealth dynamics profile - Myers Briggs - how to elicit values -reprogram limiting and supporting beliefs - build a new identity and self concept - how to set goals - how to write an action plan - how to program yourself for sucess.
Develop the winners attitude and achieve success in life, relationships, career and sport. When life is treated as a game and played with an attitude of playfullness then our daily existence becomes so much more fulfilling. Then rather than reacting one begins to think proactively and more creatively. Existence is constantly drawing cards for each and every one of us to play. How you deal with those cards will be based upon your values, beliefs, identity, attitudes, memories and your level of awareness. You can react and blame the world or you can look upon whatever happens in life as an opportunity to grow as a human being. The moves that the others make in the game provide an opportunity for you to address issues. From this perspective we can learn to be grateful for whatever happens.
Where to start? You know that it is time to make some changes in life but where do you start? Do you just jump straight in, set a goal and take action? Or do you begin by reflecting upon how the past has formed the foundation for who you are now? Should you learn how to quieten the mind and relax more deeply into the present moment through meditation practice? Should you learn more about the structure of the mind and how the mechanisms within the mind interrelate to form a mind set? Should you start with the theory first and then do the practical or is it okay to run headlong into the game and pick up the concepts as you go? Should you work methodically in a linear fashion or more spontaneously in a right brain mode? Enrolled in a course of study at a place of learning, one usually receives the education in a linear sequence of training modules but in the game of life the reality is quite different. The mind is structured much like the Internet in that pages are hyper linked via keywords and images. Every thought that you have provides the opportunity to shift your focus onto a number of other thoughts. Those thoughts then provide the opportunity to link to other thoughts but then those thoughts also provide a way to link back to your starting thought. Focussing the mind is the act of managing the thought process constructively such that it leads you towards a desirable outcome. In that thought process there will be some thoughts that move you away from a behaviour while other thoughts lead you towards a behaviour. All animals, including us humans, move away from pain and towards pleasure. We use this basic mechanism in building a compelling future. This mechanism is influenced by your concept of time. (See Timeline by Abby Eagle.) Some people focus more on the past, some live more in the present, others in the future, some are long term planners, others just allow things to happen. Each concept of time has an upside and a downside but no matter your concept of time there will come a time when you have to face death. Some people move with purpose into life while others let life lead them. There is no right or wrong way on how to lead your life. It is your life. However, there will come a time when you are close to death, a time when you get to reflect back upon life and your achievements. This experience will occur for everyone. It can not be avoided. Will your death be a celebration of life or will it be an event filled with pain and remorse? The last ten years of life are referred to as the golden years of life yet this term seems to be in stark contrast to the actual process of old age. In some cases the elderly are isolated from their friends and relatives in an aged care facility. Near the end they may be moved to a hospice. In some cases people don’t grow old, instead they die from a terminal illness. I remember a woman with a serious illness saying that, “People think that when you get sick that you just relax and die but it is not like that,” she said. “The actual experience is of extreme emotional and physical pain, worry, distress and despair.” Some people experience a better death than others. How you experience it is going to be dependent in part on how you led your life. If every day of your life was a celebration then when death comes you will be ready for it, and it too will become a celebration. The last few years of your life should be quality time, not an experience to be endured. One should be prepared for death and part of that preparation comes from how you lived your life, and the decisions that you made. This life direction manual gives you the opportunity to take stock of your life - to step back and look at it in a structured way - and then to begin putting things in place and move with confidence into the future.
The life direction manual comes in five parts with pages for you to record your notes. PART 1: Taking stock of who you are.
PART 2: Values.
PART 3: Beliefs
PART 4: Identity
PART 5: Goal setting
PART 6: Bits and pieces
Buy the My Life Direction Manual
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