IS JEALOUSY TORTURING YOU AND WRECKING YOUR RELATIONSHIPS?

I have participated and worked in the personal growth field since 1980. Most of the techniques that I have seen to help people deal with the pain of jealousy in relationships have involved cathartic type therapies: heavy breathing, pillow beating, shouting, screaming and crying, none of which was very effective in lessening the feeling's of jealousy.

To resolve the issue of jealousy in relationships you first need to understand what you do in your mind to create the feelings. You probably make an image of your lover in an intimate situation with someone else. You probably then zoom in on the image which has the effect of intensifying the feelings. Then you say something to yourself with a tonality that intensifies the feelings of jealousy. You then focus on the feelings and amplify them. By repeating this strategy over and over again you can build the feelings of jealousy to such a state that it damages the relationship and makes your life a misery.

What most people fail to understand is that they play an active role in falling in and out of love and that they do something in their mind to deepen the feelings of love. Then the fear of losing the other kicks in and they run a sequence of thoughts in their mind in such a fashion that it generates intense feelings of jealousy. The feelings of jealousy may then destroy both the love and the relationship. By becoming more self aware of how you create the feelings in your body you can learn to bring more peace, love, happiness, bliss, joy and ecstasy into your life.

Read What Others Say About NLP, TimeLine & Ericksonian Hypnosis.

GUILT, FRUSTRATION, JEALOUSY

"The NLP techniques were really powerful. Dealing with my negative emotions - guilt, frustration and jealousy was very moving because I could actually feel the shift in my body. And after the workshop I felt incredibly calm and level with a deeper understanding of where my issues came from. Doing the workshop with my husband was comforting and I'm sure will give us a better understanding of each other.

I now realise there is nothing in my life I can't alter or change. I've learnt techniques to clear long standing issues and how to change beliefs about myself. And I've learnt that out of negative emotions/issues, positive outcomes are possible. I've gained a greater understanding of my feelings and my reactions to negative emotions.

I'm looking forward to putting it into practice in an everyday situation. I also feel I can help my children learn a few steps to better their life. I found the way Abby taught us was gentle and compassionate to everyone in the workshop." Donna Hannan, Caloundra QLD

Comments by a Master NLP Practitioner
NLP, Time Line Therapy and Hypnosis when used together by a Master NLP Practitioner can give seemingly miraculous results. Someone once said that we only use 10% of the capacity of our brain. Someone else suggested that perhaps we do use 100% of our brain but we occupy it with negative thoughts. By learning how to directionalise the brain/mind you can get more from life. Don't let negative emotions such as grief, sadness, pain, fear, anger, jealousy, guilt, shame, failure and so on prevent you from living life to the max. Address any issue that is holding you back by having a consultation with a Master NLP Practitioner who is also skilled in Time Therapy and Hypnosis.

Types of problems that can be addressed with NLP, Hypnosis and Time Line

• Stress management.
• Relationship problems.
  
• Fear of public speaking / stage fright.
• Letting go of negative emotions such as fear, anger, hurt, stress, sadness, grief, jealousy, anxiety, panic attacks and depression.
• Sports performance.
• Sexual abuse, eating disorders, weight loss,
• Self confidence and life direction.
• Stop smoking and drug abuse.

To book a NLP consultation with Abby Eagle on the Gold Coast of Australia please phone 07 5576 4270.

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